""When you idolize your partner, that implies that you think you are incomplete without them. Because you don't feel whole on your own, you yearn for completion in another person. It's kinda like that bogus line in Jerry McGuire when he says, 'You complete me.' Sorry to break it to you, but no relationship can ever complete you. What you need to feel complete already resides inside you." "
Add More Ing to Your Life: A Hip Guide to Happiness - Gabrielle Bernstein

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